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Sejak akhir2 ni aku senang sangat penat. Tidur tak cukup pun penat. Tak dapat rest betul2 pun penat. CH dah bising sebab aku asyik penaaat je. Actually bila aku penat aku jadi moody. Rasa macam nak mengamuk tapi dah tentulah aku tak mengamuk. Tak reti. Tapi kesian la CH. Sebab aku rasa macam nak maraaah je kat dia. Haha. Masalah mental betul la.
Apa pasal penat pun tak tahu la.

Oh ye. Mungkin salah satu sebabnye adalah BB semakin mengaktifkan diri.
Seriously, pening kepala aku. Apa yang BB nak buat, tak boleh dihalang. Kalau kita halang, nanti stok mengamuk2 menangis jerit. Siap badan lentik ke belakang macam gaya figure skating tuh.
Kalau dia dah start menangis macam ni(Oh tapi bukan lah sebijik gaya macam ni. Kalau sebijik macam ni bole gak aku anta pi skating class) memang payah la nak pujuk. Haa tu yang kenkadang ter*pelepap* jugak tangan ke bontot ke. Oh geram betul. Makin kuat la nangis bila dah kena pukul warning tuh. Tapi lepas tu pujuk la balik. Kesian jugak.


So google2.
Dealing with toddler temper tantrum
Between the ages of one and three, your previously gentle and loving toddler will have a change of personality. He will no longer be content to accept your rules for everything, but will want his own say in what he does and does not do. Quite frequently, this will result in toddler temper tantrum.
A toddler has a tantrum to try and get what they want. If this usually works, they will continue to have tantrums. If, on the other, a tantrum never produces the result they want, they will soon give it up as ineffective.

The following are a number of things you can do when your child is in the middle of a tantrum, without having to give in:

Ignore him. (Erm,kadang2 buat la.Biar je BB nangis. Tapi macam kesian)
Most tantrum-throwers are trying to attract attention. If you don't give him that attention, he will lose interest and stop the tantrum.

Send him to bed or to his room. (Oh tak pernah. Nanti jatuh katil. Dia dah besar sikit mungkin boleh buat. Haha)
This gives both of you a cooling down period.

Leave him. (Kesiannn..)
Obviously, don't take your eyes off the child if you do this in public.

Distract him. (Haa..ni je la yang selalu buat pun)
Start to play with a new toy, get your child a drink, go outside for a walk. Do whatever it takes to get your toddler's mind off the problem.

Toddler temper tantrum are an inevitable part of a child's development. They can't be completely avoided. But with some back-up options, hopefully the amount of time your child spends in a tantrum will be reduced.

Entah lah. Maybe ada cara lain. Takpe.Dah lama2 nanti mungkin aku dah expert on how to handle.Sekarang pun belum lah tahap melampau.Cuma dah nampak la sedikit ciri2 tu. Huhu.
Masa kecik, abang aku pernah menangis berguling2 kat shopping complex sebab papa n mama taknak belikan dia kereta bomba permainan tu. Dah lah masa tu kebetulan ada lawatan by VIP so depa bentang red carpet. Abang aku bukan kira, atas red carpet tu jugak la dia nak berguling.
Tsk.
So, maybe I should ask my parents on how to deal with this kind of situation kan?



Eh kejap.
Rasanya kereta bomba permainan tu akhirnya berjaya abang dapat sebab seingat aku ada menatang tu kat rumah masa kecik dulu.

Hmmm..ok *sambung google*